"The best lover you will ever have is yourself. Master that relationship, and every other will be an extension of your own deep love, care, and devotion."
-anonymous brilliance-
Self-Tying—an act of love, of beautification, of devotion to self. Entraced in the sensation of the rope, its sweet caresses, biting grabs, and its silky, snaking movements wrapping the curves of your luscious body. The embrace, the squeeze, the constriction. Feeling the ensnaring grip of the rope tighten as you breathe. Its fingers like hands of a lover with fists of your delicious flesh.
Enhance your erotic experience, bring depth and complexity to the sensations on your skin, your belly, your legs, your toes, your breasts, your pussy. This is YOUR body. YOUR pleasure. YOUR freedom. Explore your edges, take yourself to new dimensions, find your seductress, find your innocence. Discover YOURSELF.
just for fun
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The beauty and magic of playing in the erotic is that it is for YOUR pleasure. I created this video one late sleepless night, purely for my own pleasure. I turned up some sultry sexy music, added red light for ambiance, danced, moved, tugged on my lingerie, felt my body, pulled on the ropes to create restriction, completely undressed myself through the ropes… It was devilishly delightful. I am not trained as an “erotic dancer.” I have actually found that discovering my seductress is quite vulnerable. At times, I feel awkward, clunky, and strange. Yet, when I am doing it for my pleasure and when I slowwww down, I feel more connected, beautiful, sexy. I feel my hair grazing my back and shoulders, the delicate touch of my fingertips along my skin, the arousing rub of the crotch rope. I feel turned on. And THAT is the point.
watch the trailer
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A short glimpse into the energy of the ritual, the movement, the mood, the intimacy of being with yourself.
If you feel the pull…
If your body leans forward instead of away…
There is more waiting for you.Â
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