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Let's play a game.

Imagine this.

 

What if you gave yourself permission to follow every impulse?
To move toward each desire without hesitation?
To let sensation pull you deeper into your own erotic intelligence?
To unlock worlds you didn’t even know existed;
worlds that melt you open, rearrange your insides,
and send you spiraling into transcendent bliss?

 

Can you feel it?
That electric shimmer of possibility? 

That’s where we’re going.

 

Into the body.
Into the shadow-soaked thrill.
Into the chaotic, sensual underworld beneath your skin 
behind the veil, into the unfiltered, unedited truth of your sensations.

Our quest?
Aliveness.

Its beauty.
Its breakdown.
Its chaos.
Its ecstasy.
Its Eros.

 

This is about smashing the barrier between you and everything you secretly crave.
It’s about letting yourself feel more than you’ve ever allowed.


Want more.
Take more.
Be more.

 

We’re going to unravel
every single thing
that never belonged to you in the first place.

Because what waits on the other side?

 

Ooofff, babe…
On the other side is a woman who can create magic on command.
A woman who brings novelty, electricity, hunger, and truth
into any moment she chooses.

 

A woman who doesn’t just touch Eros 
she lives it.
 
FEEL IT

 

 

 

 

 

I'm Kati Bird

I don't do surface-level intimacy.  I work with Eros as a catalyst, raw, precise, and transformative.  

There is a reason Esther Perel continues to invite me to lead intimacy arts inside her Erotic Intelligence Retreats.  Entrusting me with more than 110 couples this year, guiding them into unthinkable depths. What happens under my guidance is unmistakable: awe, connection, and the kind of embodied revelation you can't un-feel. 

My style is a fusion of disciplines most people only ever study separately:
sacred sexuality, conscious kink & shibari, somatic relating, somatic trauma therapy, relational communication, spirituality, & deep healing.
I braid them together, intuitively, and with a fierce devotion to truth.

 

I want THIS!

Start the year feeling. something. different.

 

This January, I’m taking us inward 
deep into the place where your real power lives.
Where the KEY to your aliveness has been hiding in plain sight,
waiting for you to claim it.

Because once you touch the edges of Eros…
once you learn how to keep that pulse vibrating through your days,
your choices, your body, your fucking LIFE 
there is no going back.

And honestly?
You won’t want to.

You’ll wonder how you ever lived without it

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A finger dip into the honey pot of EROS

 

I used to think Eros was something reserved for women who had the look

 the seductive type, the slinky woman, the “born feminine” girls
who seemed to ooze desire without even trying.

 

Yeah… that wasn’t me.
Or so I thought.

 

What I know now?
Eros has nothing to do with looking like a perfectly curated femme fantasy
or acting like some watered-down version of sensuality.

 

Eros isn’t a performance.
It isn’t a costume.
It isn’t a character you play.

 

Eros is raw life force 
the kind that doesn’t apologize, doesn’t shrink,
and definitely doesn’t wait for permission.

 

It’s messier than the Instagram filtered version.
More human than the “divine feminine” script.
More wild, more mischievous, more animal.
More you than anything you’ve ever tried to become.

 

Eros is the pulse that reminds you you’re alive.
It’s the rebel inside you who refuses to stay quiet.
It’s the permission slip to feel everything 
the hunger, the ache, the pleasure, the grief, the truth.

 
Eros is indulgent.
Decadent.
All-consuming in the best way.

 

It’s the art of reveling in your body,
letting sensation seduce you back into yourself,
and actually following the impulses that call to you 
not because they’re “appropriate,”
but because they’re authentic.

 

This is what unleashes desire that’s real.
Desire that’s dangerous.
Desire that rewrites your entire life.

 

And when a woman lets herself want like that?
She becomes unforgettable.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Touching Eros Series

3 LIVE MASTERCLASSES

-Finger dips into the honey pot of Eros-

 

I am excellent at keeping secrets 
but this one?
This one should have NEVER been hidden from you.
From us.
From any woman with a pulse and a destiny.

This is the secret that changes everything.
And I’m going to reveal it to you.

What's Included?

 →Touching, Tasting, & Tantalizing Eros for 21 days

→3 LIVE CLASSES

→Body Activation Guide (best in bed 😏 )

→BONUS: Seduce Yourself Tie (Shibari Instruction Class & Spicy Trailer) 

 All this for $33

 

This year is going to be DIFFERENT!
LET'S GO!

Becoming Unravelled

JANUARY 7th

Every experience, thought, belief, word spoken, past experience gets woven into your existence since the moment you were born. Ways you were told how to act, behave, dress, look, love, play, work, learn…it was taught to you. 

How would you know any different?  What if there is something more?

I will tell all, how my biggest unravelling led to the best discoveries of my life.  Did I know that at the time? No, it was a clusterfuck of a collapse, a desperate attempt to heal.  All the while, I discovered a truth greater than anything I had known.   It changed the course of my life, forever. 

Are you ready to unravel? To change the course of your life...forever?

The Secret

JANUARY 14th

Beneath your fingertips, with you at every moment of the day, night, and for this very lifetime, you are holding the best-kept secret. 

Hidden in plain sight, you have the key. 

Your body holds the key to taking you to alternate dimensions, time travel, altered states, euphoria, bliss, and beyond.  How come nobody told you?  Because when you learn the language of your body, it sets you free. Your freedom is terrifiying to the outside world.   Many people are discovering how psychedelics are bringing a deep level of healing and transformation…AND you can do the same with just your body.  

HOW?!

The secrets will be revealed here. 

 Tantalizing Taboo

JANUARY 21st

Are you afraid of the dark?

Peeking through split fingers, curious to see what’s really there? Are hidden desires nudging you, while fears and judgments hold you back from

the erotic and sensual freedom you crave?

Do you worry about rejection, being misunderstood, or overprotecting yourself, keeping you zipped up and cautious?

The shadow feels scarier when it’s hidden, growing more untouchable in the dark, making strange sounds that startle us. What if you choose to meet it, to approach it with curiosity instead of fear?
AND something shifts? 

Discovering the power and liberation that comes from releasing resistance.

You may even…I dare to say…Enjoy it!

FINGER DIP THIS EROS

 

 

 

 

 

"Eros is not just desire for another person;
it is the desire for meaning,
for beauty,
for contact with
the soul of the world." 

-James Hillman

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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